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Well the first thing to do is stop and take stock. It may mean spending a great deal of time with yourself becoming happy about who you are and knowing exactly what you want in someone else.

Clearly the things that you have been doing in the past have not worked so lets analyse the situation and see how it can be improved. There is a saying which goes if you keep on doing what your doing you will continue to get the same results. I believe that 100%. How can you expect anything to change if you don’t change it? What kind of people have you been going out with in the past? Were you quite happy to introduce them to your family? If you answered no to that last question then the general consensus is not to go out with them, your family usually have your best interest at heart and if they don’t approve then generally it is because he/she Is bad for you. Unless of course their reasons for not approving is based on prejudice. racial or social.

I know that many women will go out with a man knowing that he has major flaws in the hope that she can change him, or men will meet a women and because she has a pretty face he turns a blind eye to her issues. The issues are ignored in the hope that he will be the one to make her behave better, believe me that is a myth and not a great idea. You need to find someone who is already where you want him or her to be mentally, financially and socially.

Also take a good long look at you and be truthful with yourself. Is it your behaviour that is stopping you from finding the perfect match? How do you treat your partner are you selfish? Or are you giving? Do you behave in a way that would make someone want to spend a great deal of their life with you?

Over indulgence in pursuits like Drinking, gambling and jealousy do not boad well for any relationship but these are the type of things that many of us will ignore when we first met our potential partners. A bad temper may be dismissed as someone who is passionate. Deep down we all know at the beginning when warning bells ring that eventually the things we are ignoring will eventually become major issues.

Dissect carefully your past relationships. Where they good relationships? How long did they last are you usually the dumpee or the dumped? If you are seriously looking at what happened was it your fault that it ended and what could you have done to have achieved a different outcome?

So what is the answer to your dilemma? Well it’s to learn from the past and not to make the same mistakes in the future. Also make sure that you are in the right place at the right time to meet that certain person. Visit http://www.ukdatejunctionevents.com to meet singles in your area and find out where local events

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